Tuesday, February 16, 2016



How’s Your 2016 Going?

Hi!
I wrote a blog post near the end of January.  I was thinking about the New Year and what I hope to achieve and accomplish.
I shared that I used to be quite specific on a variety of categories that I set goals for.
This year, as I shared, I only thought about 3 things: Life, Love and Health.
How are you doing so far with your goals?
I think it’s helpful to pause each month and reflect.  See how you’re doing.
Is your life evolving the way you had hoped? 
If not, what can you do about it?
There’s a great book that I refer to periodically.   It’s called “mindset: The New Psychology of Success”, by Carol Dweck.
As we live our lives, our mindset can make a huge difference in what we achieve and become.
We don’t have to always be happy.  It can make you anxious to try and be happy all the time.  That’s not realistic.
Did you ever wonder what would happen if when someone asked the common polite question, “How are you?” you launched into what may really be going on in your life?
It could be a lot of fun! 
Mindset  helps with the realty of life, and speaks to what we have in our own power to control.
We all spend time in our own heads… that self- talk that is constant.
What mindset offers is way to approach life inside out.  Start with the talk that goes on in your own head.  Assess, analyze and adjust your way of looking at things.
By the simple act of adjusting your approach, your mindset, you have the chance to truly change your own life.
I am not speaking about positive thinking. 
Positive thinking is useful, but as I know for myself, sometimes I can get trapped in that… what changing your mindset does, is manage your approach to life. 
If now that it is February 16th, 2016, the first month of the year is done, we are halfway though the second, and you are feeling you’d like to tweak, adjust, or change parts of your life, check this book out.
Mindset:  it’s useful and easy to read.
I know that for my first big goal of 2016, LIFE, this book has made a difference.  It’s a great tool to help reset your thoughts,  manage your life, and design your personal  approach to your own life.
Here’s to finding your way well!

Until next time,
Pam